After reading much about lightning, and having been in literally dozens of lightning storms on sailboats, most will agree that there is no clear answer on if grounding a boat helps to avoid lightning strikes.
Before leaving on a two year singlehanded cruise on my Jeanneau Tonic 23, I had it grounded by a marine electrician. This involved running wires from the chainplates (terminal end of the standing ss rigging) to a gold-plated grounding plate attached to the bottom of the hull (outside) just aft of the keel.
Also, my mast was supported by a 4" diameter ss compression post under the deck. This post also was a mounting point for the table and was fiberglassed into the hull on top of the keel (cast iron). Pretty solid ground there, too.
Surprisingly, an article in Practical Sailor years ago studied a survey of sailboats struck by lightning. Half were grounded and half weren't. Go figure.
One old wive's tale of how to ground your boat was to attach jumper cables to the rigging and throw the other end into the water. Somehow the match-up of jumper cables and the power of a lightning bolt is a bit amusing.
Personal experince and opinion. I don't think it makes a difference. Although I have literally, dozens of times, had lightning strike the water within 25 yards of my boat, sporting a masthead 40 feet over the waterline, with the boat being both grounded or ungrounded, I have never been struck. If 40 feet of aluminum mast doesn't get hit, I'm not sure that we have much to worry about.
The radio antenna as an attractor? I don't think so.
I'm sure that the scientific types, which I am defintely not, will chime in here with some good advice and maybe blow holes in my arguments, but lightning has defintely not blown holes in Spirit.
Nick
"Valkyrie"