Hi Russ,
If you want your wife to be happy, you will need to have her involved in making the buying decision... otherwise, you will hear over and over again, "Well, it wasn't what
I wanted..." :wink:
If you have not done any boating previously, this is a tough decision to make... pretty much a leap of faith. If you have boated and want the flexibility to be able to spend time aboard and travel, the decision is easier. If you have been a sailor and are wondering about traveling with a powercruiser, it is all about mindset.
Having said all that, this is something I used to tell people when they asked about traveling with our small trailerable sailboat: "Could you spend the weekend camping under your dining room table? Peeing in a bucket? Eating out of a cooler and a campstove?"
Well, the CD-25 is a LOT more boat than that. Imagine being able to stay in one room of your house for extended time. :wink: Realistically, the boat has about 150 square feet of room (inside and the out in the cockpit). About the same as a pickup camper or a campervan. Of course, the delightful difference is you can wander about on the water pretty much at will.
If you two have camped and enjoyed it, AND you like being on the water, no matter the weather, you will probably be OK. If your wife TRULY thinks roughing it is staying at the Holiday Inn, you might want to re-think this. You have to crawl through an opening to the berth (we both sleep REALLY well in there, btw), the fridge is probably smaller than what you have on just the door of your home fridge. The dinette is pretty much it for a place to sit inside... do you need a Lazy Boy Recliner to be comfortable? Not a lot of counter space in the galley. An enclosed head, but you gotta sit on the potty to shower. (Some people are grossed out by that... I don't know why.) No cable TV. No walk-in closet. No bathtub.
And, we both LOVE it. That's the key: if it is something you BOTH want to do, you can be very happy onboard. If one of you is trying to convince the other, you will likely be giving up the boat after a season. We have known plenty of couples who have tried cruising or full-time RVing and have bailed after a short time because one or the other wasn't happy with the lifestyle.
Instead of looking for this particular boat, walk her on the docks of the nearest marina. See how people live on boats there. Talk to people who are traveling by (offer to drive them to the store to resupply - you will get LOTS of free advice).
We made the switch from a bigger sailboat to the CD-25. I thought we would be happy with the 22, but when my wife saw them side-by-side, she pointed to the 25 and said, "That one." She was right - it fits our traveling style. Over the years, we have traveled coast to coast on motorcycles, VW bug, VW van, campervans, and a series of motorhomes... we worked together for 30 years... we already knew we could handle the close quarters and we both enjoy seeing what's over the horizon. The one thing neither of us likes is not having enough "elbow room", and that was the difference between the 22 and the 25 for us.
We're spending the summer in our 5th wheel, with large slide outs, and plenty of room and amenities... we're both anxious to get back to the boat!
Good luck with the decisions.
Best wishes,
Jim B.
PS Click on the link below, and you can buy her a book that tells the story of traveling on a CD-25... with a cat... and the cat gets the biggest storage area in the boat.
