I am happy with two sets of Deka AGMs and did have a Optima go 5+ years so that wasn't too bad. I bought another recent set of AGMs from a local Batteries and Bulbs store (used to be batteries plus) and they have some good units for reasonable prices as well.
I have moved batteries forward on three boats so far and have been happy each time. Pay careful attention to placement, wire running possibilities, and if you use AGMs, don't be afraid to get kinky with mounting. Remember, they can be mounted on their sides or backs or ends and at angles so that allows for real creativity. Read the specs on the specific units you buy to be sure of the options you have. I have used PVC lumber, starboard, plumbing HDPE straps, webbing, angled aluminum, and adhesives, to create mounting solutions and that is just the beginning.
You can always test weight with jugs of water if you want to
"sample" your boat's handling and resting position with various load positions. Hollowing out at least some of the underberth space for storage opens up great options.
If you keep the starting battery rearward, consider going smaller on that unit if possible to reduce weight and move it lower if feasible. The motors on a 16 do not really need the same spec unit as a 90hp would. How about a lawn tractor battery or larger motorcycle battery? Talk to a mechanic about the real cranking amp needs of your outboard and start there. If you can put all the other loads on the house battery, you don't have to overcompensate on the starting battery.
Moving a house battery forward does not necessarily require big cables because you are unlikely to be running big amps from that unit on a smaller boat. Also, I would consider group U1, through 31 when looking at mounting positions. If you have the space for the next size up, it may be work a few more pounds and dollars if your electrical needs or anxiety level is in question.
If you hook it up to helm gizmos and lights plus the rear bilge, you may only need about 15 amps of throughput depending on the specific items you are powering. That means about 10 (bilge) and 12 (helm) gauge wire could do the job for that forward battery and that size is easy to work with.
The charging can be worked out various ways but that is another discussion.
Pat, If you run that 5 amp draw overnight for 12+ hours and its running the whole time then your set going from full to 12 (about 50%), is not out of the ordinary, but I would question whether the fridge is really running that many hours over night. The different charged voltages would cause me to question the health of that under performing unit immediately and consider a new matched set or just one big 4D if you have a place for it. are you house batts still in the stern?
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Greg