We almost had a REAL disaster while towing on our 4,000 mile trip. When we arrived home as I was checking the various parts of the trailer, hitches, connections, etc. I noticed that the hitch ball was not vertical, it was leaning back at about 10-15 degrees. On inspection I saw that the nut holding the hitch ball on had come almost completely off allowing the ball to wobble back and forth. It was not even finger tight and was about halfway down the threads. It appeared that the ball had not been loose too long as the threads and the hole it fits into on the towing piece were not too badly worn. Had the nut come completely off the ball could have lifted up and out on a rough road and the trailer would have been held only by the safety cables!! The surge brakes always clunk as the actuator slides back and forth and I baby any start to reduce the shock on the towing vehicle so I did not notice anything unusual when I took off from a stop. The ball is good quality, the shaft had a lock washer and nut on that I tightened before beginning the trip. This was our first long tow for the boat but I have towed a travel trailer many thousands of miles and have never had this happen. I have no idea how the nut loosened, I'm just damn glad it didn't come off on I5 at 65 MPH. Lessons learned: Add the trailer ball to the routine checks I make before each day's departure and add a wrench big enough to tighten it to the tool kit.