Ahhh yes, a boat forum, and for some (myself included) it is so much more than that. Yup, I love the boat part, and I look at many of those post with interests and yearn for learning.
Oh, There are some posts I don't look at, following
Starcraft Tom's advice,
"or after seeing the title you could just not look..... just saying"
and there are some poster that I may disagree with, sometimes, but I consider this more than just a "boating forum" and agree with the sentiment of many that this "pub" or "family" is more than just boating acquaintances. I have friends here, Good Friends, that have been like brothers and sisters for me for, now, a lot of years, and I enjoy, even treasure exchanges with them.
The old adage, no politics or religion in polite company, applies for formal dinners, and for those who are not really close friends. On here, (C=BRATS), I consider most of you friends, and some very good friends, and when we are together we have talked about both politics and religion. (For the record, I'm much stronger in religion that politics) but both have a significant affect on our (and my) life in one way or another, and in all of our lives to some extent, so I find it hard to think that a conversation on here may not touch those subjects sometimes, in some ways. I also adamantly agree that the "Just Be Nice" policy should be adhered to as
Tosca said:
"I like the forum just the way it is. I enjoy disagreement when it occurs (not that often); as long as the "just be nice" philosophy is maintained."
As Jay said, this place has gone through some rather turbulent times and has come out well. We are still friends and the boating forum and it's superfluous edges are still going on, much the same as if we were sitting across the table or down the bar from each other.
Thanks Jay for adding:
"This has been from it’s inception more than just a “boat forum” with many like El & Bill likening it to a friendly pub, where many view points were exchanged on most all subjects, but centered around boats. Keeping all political opinion out may be good in a general sort of Utopian way, but politicians make the laws that us boaters must live with, so as with everything else “just be nice” overall has worked out well. In years past there were many heated discussions & views shared, which I enjoyed & learned good information & others I just ignored. These were easy to avoid if one didn’t care for them."
So yesterday, I found one post that surprised me and I disagreed with but decided to pass on responding, and then I found one that I often disagree with and was surprised at how closely it aligned with how I was feeling. See, It is a great place and there is always something to learn.
Oh, and IF there is a place you want to post that only goes to the registered C-BRAT members there is a forum for just that. It is called the "That's Life" forum. And for something you don't want to share with the whole site, there is the option to send a "PM". That way it goes to only the intended recipient, not the whole web site.... That is the purpose of the "PM" (Private Message).
So for now, I say Thank You to the guys who had the for-site to put together a place where we can come to share, learn and grow in a community that all share the love of our boats and our love of the water.
Thank you, Tyboo and DaNerd.
Harvey
SleepyC :moon
