Pretty sure I advocate doing what makes each individual/couple happy. Goodness knows I've seen Tom and Susan at the docks at Friday Harbor. Anchoring out is a part of the cruising experience. As is "marina life". To tell others that they should or shouldn't do something because that is your preference doesn't take into account what others may like.
Yes, you can anchor out and dinghy in, as Tom mentioned, in Oak Bay... then get on a bus and see the sights on the way to Victoria. OR you can tie to the dock at the Inner Harbour, and have all the cool stuff along the waterfront as part of your experience... like listening to the music from the buskers after buses have stopped running for the day... or having a dessert waffle from one of the vendors to go along with your sundowners... or being able to walk from the boat to one of the many great breakfast places near the Inner Harbour, without having to get a dinghy down wait for a bus, walk from the bus stop to one of those breakfast places, then wait for the bus again, dinghy back to your boat, then wrestle with the dinghy to get it on top of the boat again. Yeah, some of us would be just fine with some easy-living right at the dock.
I think there is some misconception that I don't think people should anchor out... nope, never said that. In fact, if you look at the original post that started this thread, my response to that post was suggesting some good marinas to visit AND some nice places to anchor. It seems that some boaters don't think you are doing the "boating experience" properly if you aren't anchoring out every night... I would not be one of those. I think it is a bit ego-centric when someone asks about good/bad marinas and they get advice that they should avoid marinas.
We spent three summers living on our boat in the marina at Friday Harbor - it was a delightful experience. We made lots of new friends, had pleasant walks to restaurants and the grocery store, showered on our own boat (instead of schlepping to the marina showers), enjoyed watching some satellite TV, and just enjoying the sights and sounds of marina life. Should everyone try that? It doesn't matter to me - I don't think it is my place to tell others how they should boat. But, I am willing to give some advice when asked for it.
I really hope the folks who asked about traveling in the San Juans and Gulf Islands are having a great time, enjoying the area the way they like! :lol: