Usually a bow lifting eye is on the deck, not under the bow. Generally they are threaded rod going down thru or by a bulkhead into an "L" bracket, rather than right into the deck. I fitted out a sailboat to make a jib tack for a cutter rig, but putting an Eye thru the deck into 3" "L" which was then bolted to a major bulkhead--and it would take the load of 4000 lbs.
On all of the C Dories, the bow eye is a towing eye--where it can be used to pull the boat on the trailer, and to tow the boat (although I would beef it up). I towed a Grady White 20 foot walk around behind a trawler and had to build an oak block 4" thick, to fit the contour of the inside of the bow, then put it in placed with epoxy and mish/mash and glass.
The 16 was lifted by its bow eye--and I am sure that you could do this--but there is no weight in the boat.
To lift with the towing eye, you would have to have some form of a bridle--I would want a strongback to prevent a crushing load on the hull.
As to lifting the stern, If I was going to do that, I would put an eye bolt or U Bolt thru the wood of the transom on each side of the engine--and back them with plates on the inside, then lift right on each side of the motor. Probably this would be OK--but I would be much more comfortable with the boat sitting on a cradle.
I don't remember my 22's aft eyes, but I believe they were not thru the transom. The 25's are only thru relitatively thin fiberglass and would not take the load of picking up the entire boat. (I was looking at the towing eye of the 25 today--and it is relitatively light--I would not consider using it to pick the boat up)
You would want two 3000 lb davits--pretty hefty!--most folks find a lift is cheaper and easier. Pensacola Yacht Club has a 4000 lb davit, and they keep having lots of problems with the base and attatchements to its supporting structure (used for launching trailerable sailboats, which have lifting rings--usually right into the keels). (the 3000 lb davit for the stern and probably a 2000 lb davit for the bow--would work for the 4500 lb 22)