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El and Bill

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A special pleasure, for us, while in the cruising world, was the companionship. Here, disjunct from 'everyday' life, folks relax, enjoy and share. The duties and obligations of 'town life' are forgotten and chatting, laughing, and comments about the natural world surrounding us become the norm. Most of the folks we knew well from cruising, we didn't see except on the water, and those were special times indeed.

Living aboard a small boat and cruising the water of America is a unique and wonderful retirement life.


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We know what you mean. In the condo I wake up and don't know where the wind is! It's odd. On the boat there is always something going on. Town life is more sterile for sure. Planning the next trip 6 months a year is too short
George
 
True. C-Dory's (and therefore C-Brats) constitute an affinity group that is hard to beat. Friends with similar interests, Adventurous, and looking toward tomorrow in the great outdoors.

Hard to beat.
...no, Impossible to beat!

Best,
Casey&Mary
 
After lurking on the old Cdog site for a couple of years I purchased my boat from a member sight unseen 1800 miles away in 2001, knowing that the group of owners that I had been observing were trustworthy enthusiasts with nothing to hide. I sold it the same way in 2013 to a young couple that reminded me a lot of myself. We're a great bunch, that's why I still check in almost every day.
 
You are making me thirsty Pat. Cindie and I look forward to that period in our lives. Aven is wearing a women's size 7.5 shoe so we can't be too far off. For now, we will continue to practice and build perspective for the future.

Greg
 
For us it is far more than a retirement life style. Two nights ago, we had a gathering of 14 friends. The major reason (if we really needed one), was to give some encouragement to a recently retired Navy Officer and his wife in their plans to go cruising.

4 families of us, sailed together (raced against, and cruised with) since the 1960's--I have know these people thru sailing for over 50 years! These 4 families all decided to leave S. Calif. and move to Pensacola--based a great deal on our friendships. One of the group, had met several cruisers from Pensacola in Mexico--liked them, and it was history. We toasted several departed friends. The comment made about one of them--was that it was hard to find a cruiser of our vintage who didn't know this man and his wife. How true that is in the small boat cruising world.

We were each challenged to say a few words about what was best about our cruising lives. Many of the comments were based on the people that one met and the friendships made. Of the group--one had made 3 circumnavigations (His wife 2), one had sailed across the Atlantic on our boat. We have spent about a year total sailing onboard our circumnavigating friend's boat. Cummulatively there were over a dozen trips to Hawaii. Most of us had transited the Panama Canal on our own boats. My comment was the best thing about cruising was spending full time with Marie--interacting together 24 hours a day with our lives and safety dependent on each other, as we crossed oceans.

I see the same things in the C Dory community--it is a lifetime of boating. Friendships here transcend the boats. It is an extended family, with people all over N. America, and occasionally elsewhere in the world. These are lifetime friendships--no matter what stage of life we are in.
 
People we meet boating and camping are the friendliest ,willing to help out. The stress of everyday work and commutes are gladly forgotten and everyone just wants to enjoy their time on water ,or at a slip or campground. People are quick to grab a line to help you in . Met about 16 couples at Cayuga 2 years ago,wife had to write down the names until we could recall them. The friends we made at Erie invited us over for dinner at campground and we met a few more couples. A month ago we visited them in central PA elk country,nice way to meet and make friends.
 
Well said, Bob! What great experiences to have shared! We are building our own memories, but no sailing and no ocean cruises! We are however tremendously excited about the Great Loop!
 
Two summers ago I went up to the north end of Vancouver Island, spending a fair amount of the time in the Broughtons. One of my goals was to go to Port Harvey, which I did and made several stops. Going back there again this summer, some of the same folks were there, and we had occasion to share a boat ride. And later, off and on through the next month we would talk on the VHF, or share an anchorage. They were often "checking on me" because my boat was so little. If they heard of a location for "fuzzy beachballs" they would pass that on to me. Great folks, cruising friends that made a difference.

I had the opportunity to meet a young couple on a 25, "Plan B", and we spent some enjoyable and memorable times together, some quit evenings, and some rollicking waves. All good times.

I didn't spend many nights at a dock, but did meet some wonderful people. Sharing a common goals and memories. The cruising has a way of equalizing and bonding. What a life.

Harvey
SleepyC :moon :embarrased
 
It's a small world after all.

This week we were leaving the ramp at KY Dam Village Marina and heading south. Then a sailboat came into view and I motored towards it. It turns out that it was a couple that we last saw in the North Channel several years ago.

Then we were talking to a couple that had just bought a Grand Banks 42 with which to do the Loop. Turns out they were long time sailors and we shared several acquaintances. After a couple of hours of conversations, I decided Bill and I are brothers from a different mother.

Nancy and I can certainly attest to the friendliness of C-Brats. A few short weeks ago we met many on the Mississippi River. We got a warm welcome, tours of all the boats, a ride on thataway, lots of advice and well wishes in our search for a C-Dory.

This forum heavily influenced or decision to buy a C-Dory.
 
Are own observations on this subject a much the same as others. I was lucky enough to take a year out of my career and do the Caribbean back in the late 80’s aboard a 44’ ketch, 2 years ago we got to do the Loop in a 34 sailing cat. Now we are back in our adoptive home of Seattle with the first third of the inside passage aboard our Tomcat under our belts.
The only reason I mention three different adventures and three different types of boats is that to us it did not seem to matter what kind of boat you are on or where you are cruising, boater seem to have a need to reach out, make a connection, and help each other. Maybe it’s a need to share the beauty or the terror we have all experienced on our boats.
We tried the RV thing and saw similar beauty but never really experienced the comradery. Maybe it is just something about the water.
 
El and Bill":2j1m61nt said:
Harvey - such great experiences and thoughts. Thanks for sharing. You capture the essence of cruising.
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El and Bill, thank you for being a fine example, and for your complimentary comment. Not being one to participate in the "sundowner drink set" I have to agree, it must be the water :thup :thup

and this place helps make it special.

Harvey
SleepyC :moon
 
Larry Patrick":n0bxq7yo said:
Hardee you made me curious about what is a fuzzy beachball?
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Larry, They knew I was up there looking for bear, and that was a way of telling me without alerting everyone on the VHF to what and where.

Harvey
SleepyC :moon :embarrased
 
Hey Barry, Good to see you here. Pop your head up more often, so we know you are still around and paying attention. Hi to Patti too.

Harvey
SleepyC :moon :embarrased
 
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