Water therapy and C-Dory recognition...

JamesTXSD

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On Friday, we got another one of "those" calls... we lost a dear friend (Joan's best girlfriend, actually) to a very freak accident. A great spirit and a sailor (she owned her own boat). No funeral; no real way for Joan to say good-bye. This loss was another kick in the guts for us. That night, Joan said to me, "I don't want to see or talk to anyone for a while. Take me out on the boat to no place particular." I did just that. We spent most of our time at anchor. She stared at the water, watched dolphins play, felt the movement... and I could see spirit coming back into my girl. We talked, cried, remembered, laughed, and remembered some more. Molly the cat stayed by Joan the whole time; guess she knew Joan needed some extra loving, too.

Our boats have been our escape for many years. Today, it was more than that. We came back renewed. I know many of you can relate. We never know what tomorrow will bring (or if there will be a tomorrow)... hug someone you love today; tell them how you feel; spend some time on the water and feel what it does for your spirit.

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On a different (and brighter) note, we have been back in Texas for just over a week. Wild Blue has gotten a lot of attention since she showed up. We've met several neighbors that have strolled by for a look. I always offer a "tour" of the boat if anyone shows real interest (beyond the many "nice boat" comments). And here's the power of the internet: as we go in and out of our canal (about a half mile), we wave at all the neighbors. The comments have gone from "nice boat" to "Is that the 22 or the 25?" Four different people in the last couple days have told us that they looked up C-Dory on the internet after they saw us go by. I make it a point to tell them about this C-Brats site, as well.

When we added the catboat to our fleet several years ago, there were a lot of "cute boat" comments. I came back with "It is a manly boat, strong and proud :wink: ". There have been a bunch of "cute boat" comments and waves from the women once again; and several who have said, "It sure is smaller than your other sailboat," (the Corsair trimaran). My response: "Only on the outside." The nearly 20' beam and 40' mast height of the tri made it seem large in the canal, I guess. People are surprised when the see the space and livability inside Wild Blue.

And my favorite comment: a neighbor from down the block asked me, "Did you really bring that boat here from Puerto Rico?" :shock: Seems that he talked to another neighbor who we visited with about our time in the San Juans. :roll:

Best wishes,
Jim B.

Here's a look at our new boat card...
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Jim and Joan,

I am sorry about your loss. What you did was the answer. No matter what feelings I have, on the water in my INN-THE-WATER (a classic 22' Angler ) gives me a chance to relax and see things in prospective. It is a different world out there. I always try and explain that I know of no place the I feel nearer to God, than on the water. That includes church.

People who have not experienced this feeling do not understand.

Thinking of you.

Fred
 
Our condolences too. Many years ago the bad news diagnosis came to my late wife and me. We went on the boat that very day and just let ourselves be held by the boat , the water, and each other.
We always took comfort in the fact that before we knew what real problems were we often voiced how lucky we were and how great our lives were. In a time of grief I always say be kind to yourselves.
 
Jim and Joan... Sorry to hear about the loss of a great friend. They are in short supply these days....until we look around our C-Dory family. They are always there....as are our boats. Yep, several of my friends wanted me to change the name of my TC24 from FreeByrd to "The Decompresion Chamber.." Several of my soldier friends would be flown back into the Atlanta area, and would spend the night on FreeByrd prior to moving onward to their families. Yep, our boats I think are one of the times we are able to just chill....and find new life on this earth.

Give Joan a hug, the cat a rub.

Byrdman
 
I did just that, Dave... and took a few for myself, too.

We know life is for the living and that includes laughing and enjoying. The boat has provided a great escape and a bit of "mental floss."

Thank you all for your thoughtful words and kindness.

Best wishes,
Jim
 
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