ssobol,
No different. Using jumper cables ain't good for the batteries either due to the large in-rush current from the high SOC battery to the low SOC battery at the moment such batteries are interconnected.
My point is that what you can do in emergencies, which happen very infrequently and for short periods of time, is no reason to design a system which allows the parallel connection of high SOC and low SOC batteries on a regular basis. You might jumper (with cables or a "Both/Parallel" switch) what? Maybe once a year, once in 5 years? To use the "Both" switch the way the OP does, one might interconnect high and low SOC batteries every day.
Better to isolate the batteries unless they are being charged -- which is exactly what an ACR is designed to do. (Note: even with a ACR, you may still need to jumper -- or use a "Both/Parallel"" switch -- if the start battery is dead and you have no charging source.)