Patrick and Family,
I never had the opportunity to meet Mama Byrd, but that's my loss.
Her spirit is alive in each of you. Lucky You.
As time goes by, as Nainu suggested, her Spirit will come across to each of you at different times and in different ways, but her spirit will manifest itself in time. Watch ... listen; Be patient.
You will begin to notice things that had been meaningless, before. Her favorite candlesticks, the salt & pepper shaker's she always insisted be on the Thanksgiving table, the mittens she knitted for your fourth birthday, or that favorite place she liked to have breakfast. ALL those are treasures you will hold Close. Enjoy them.
According to my belief system you are mourning now; she is not. Mama Byrd is still chatting and catching-up with all the 'kin who've gone before, and basking in the time when you'll all be together again. Wow, talk about a Byrd Family Reunion!
On second thought, You're the luck one's; to be left with decades of favorite memories and recollections. Be Happy.
These thoughts may seem strange to some folks, but they're sent your way with warmth and affection.
Best,
Casey