The part most likely to fail would be the arm. I believe that is is rigid enough to be fine. I have done pull ups on it, with no real evidence of flexing. Your wife will be either pulling horizontally or pulling down (depending on the way the davit is mounted and the model. The line is going thru a jam cleat, which will catch if she lets up on the strain. Thus she can "sweat" up the line a little, and then pull it in a a bit. The ratio of lift is at least 4 to 1 (again depending on rigging). When we mount it on the side of the boat, for retrieving a person, Marie would be pulling down, thru the cleat on the post (bearing in mide that the larger 36" arm has two ways of rigging it.
I'll have to get the photos of the side mount on the cabin up in the next few days. The boat will definately heal some, but that is a good factor, since it will bring the person overboard nearer to the cockpt gunnel. When it gets warmer, we will get some " retrieveal photos"--the gulf is 67 now--but I want it to be at least in the mid 70's...