Let's Go Girls

Pat Anderson

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Patty here. First opportunity I've had to post my adventures as a solo sailor. I have three main thoughts I'd like to share with my sisters. First, you need to be able to "do it all" in case anything happens in the sense of an emergency and YOU are left to get the spousal unit (or friend) help. Secondly, when you are pushed away from the dock and realize you are "on your own," there is a really nice "rush" of excitement, freedom, and control---until the panic sets in, it's a great feeling!! Third, (and Pat told me NOT to post this), NOBODY is saying, "slow down," "turn left," more gas," watch out," etc. And you know what? You CAN do it without any advice. For me, personally, I felt it necessary to have someone on the dock to grab my lines. If I had known the conditions would be calm and there would be lots of dock space, I might have tried docking with no help. But for my first time out, I was greatful for Bill and Joe (Halcyon and R-Matey) for help. So do it girls, It's a rush!!!!
 
Patty, as an observer to your first solo docking, I felt that you would have done just fine without anyone being there. All I can say is that the other sailor girls on the dock were watching you with envy. Go Girls Go!

Ruth (R-Matey)
 
What was that missile whistling past Tyboo's head? :lol: Yes, I am proud that Patty can handle the boat. And see how well she listens to me, "Pat told me NOT to say this but..."
 
I'm glad you posted this, Patty. Gives me some confidence that maybe one of these days I'll do as well as you, and the enthusiasm to try. It's always good to have a role model 8) .

Susan
 
YEA Patty! You go girl!

Boo-of-the-Ty -- you're cruisin for a bruisin (note: when you take the other words out, it spells BooTy) :lol:

I love giving nicknames -- one of the mixer drivers at work was at the wastewater treatment plant waiting to pour concrete -- a high pressure hose broke loose and shot brown water ALL over him, his truck (cab windows were down and it was dripping from the headliner too) -- so I nicknamed him PooBear. :D
 
Patty, Thanks for the report of your outing, and sharing your thoughts. You are so right about the "rush" part. It's so cool!

At Bellingham, I think we should give some driving lessons to J and T. :wink: Actually, I bet they can drive as well as they fish! They could teach us a thing or two.

Mike, You crack me up :lol:

Go, Girls, Go!

Robbi
 
Patty, you are right on! I think it is important for all of us women to learn how to handle our boats well. I have to say, it has been fun "listening" to the guys talk about the solo women in the San Juans. Watch out, here we come!

Nancy
 
Thanks for the report Patty. I'll try to get Joyce to read it. Maybe next time we have our boats in the same place, you can take Joyce out cruising and I'll take Pat out fishing (or drinking - I'm fairly good at both :wink:). It might be easier if a female eases her into the idea of handling the boat on her own.
 
patty good for you on the solo!! Susan had a great time on her solo this weekend and learned a few thing too. I will let her give you the details but here a over view.

Monday she towed the boat to cap Santee boat haven and had them sling launch it. Then her and the dog ran out to Roche harbor where they would not let her tie up. She needed to let the dog out and check out the air show. They were so busy with mega yachts they told her she could not tie up or even get gas!!! A pox on their house!! So off they went to look for whales, which they found, and get yelled out by the whale nazi's. I will let her explain. After that she spent the night at Blakely, which is looking good, and talked with sarge and family on gigi.

Tuesday she went to James Island and hung out until I got off work and drove up to the ramp. She came and got me and we over nighted back at Blakely again.

On Wednesday we ran up to Blaine and tied up next to my parents boat and stayed the night. Great fire works show from the boat and a good dinner on the grill.

Thursday we finally got my folks to fire up the marina queen and headed out to matia were we rafted up on the buoy for the night.

This morning we got out of bed and ran home to the sling and then drove home so I could take a client out house shopping. Would love to spend another week. The folks got another week off and will be in the island's I hope. If you see a 44-foot Atlantic names bratty one stop by and say hi. Warning I get my gift of talk from dad. oh and I will post pic and story of the deer rescue later.
 
I was telling Steve about this thread this morning over breakfast and when I told him it was about Patty singlehandling their boat, before he heard another word, he said, "On purpose?"

Patty, I whacked him for ya! :xlol

Caty
 
Patty here. I wish I could think of some uberclever responses to some of the male posts in response to mine ("girls drive boats?", "on purpose?"). I am reading these responses with a huge grin on my face. It's sad how conditioned we (girls) are so we view something like singlehandling a boat as a triumph. Robbi (C-Run) has always been my inspiration, and Susan (Susan E) docked in that tight Blakely Marina, so I'm not a pioneer by a long shot, but it was fun and did give me a rush!
 
So my trip,

Patty, I absolutely agree about the rush. It Is exactly what you said. A sense of freedom that I can go anywhere I want with out someone telling me “where are you going?” or turn left, get closer to shore, or what are you doing?...and I don’t mean to make them sound like bullies because they are not. But it is what you say we (us girls) are conditioned to letting the guys lead.

AND I definitely write this with humility hearing Robbi say “of course you could do it. I knew that.” As a matter of fact Robbi was on my mind the whole time I was out there, like a kindred spirit.

So it started out with deciding where to start my trip. I have never been worried about towing the boat. My dad had me hooking up and backing travel trailers up since I got my license. And I had a little ski boat that I would tow and launch by myself for a few years in the sierras. But lakes are one thing the ocean as different. So I was leery about going through deception by myself and I didn’t want to be restricted on getting there at slack because is wanted to sleep in. I get up at 4:30 am to drive to Seattle for work and cherish sleep. So I had Camp Santini sling launch for me. Pulling away from the Dock with my dog, cyper was that unbelievable rush, I was talking about. I could pick any dumb channel to go up I wanted!!!!!!! GPS on, radar on, kicker up, motor down, trim tabs adjusted… then FULL THROTTEL.

Main goal…. Orca pictures. So I listened to 79 long enough until someone slipped up their location. North of Roche harbor. So thru Thatcher’s pass, past upright head, and threw the wasp island to Roche.

I needed to let the dog off to pee. However Roche was inhospitable. I should have known. I was warned about Roche on the 4th of july. I was told there was no room at the guest dock, that they could not accommodate me. I asked for ten minutes at the fuel dock as I saw plenty of room at that dock. I was told I could not as they had a long line of guest waiting for fuel. I then asked if I could stop if I bought 5 gallons of gasoline. I was told no and asked to leave their marina. So I did. I had to dodge all the big boats anchored out in the bay and all their teenagers racing in the respective dingys.

So I taught cyper to pee in the bilge pump sump after setting the example. ( yes I heard the groans) Had to do something. I was a little unnerved by the racing teenagers to find a beach.

Now off to find the whales. Which was in just a few minutes. I got lots of photos. I was visted by sound watch and their handout on how to watch the whales properly. I followed the rules for about an hour when they left and the whales left. So I turned on the boat and motored at a good clip to catch up. That is when I got in trouble because I pissed off a small charter boat, for waking him and going to fast. They didn’t realize I was listening to then slander me on the radio. So when they threatened to turn me I apologized. And then stayed behind them to continue watching.


I did have the whales go right under the boat but at one point in time, but the computer lost the GPS signal so I lost a where the boat was on the map. It got stuck on cursor. And then I spent the next hour and a half completely ignoring that the whales that were under the boat. Note engine was off because I was afraid to move without GPS and depth. And I had been in so many menu screens and the manual without success that I was shaking too badly to hold the camera steady. I was out of cell phone reach so I couldn’t call any one for help with the software. Tech support being tom. It was 4pm and I was afraid of the wind coming up and not being able to know where I was in relation to salmon bank. And getting stuck out there. Fortunately, like every computer if you reboot enough times things should return the setting you had them on last. So that worked after three times and I was able to follow the whale boats again before heading to Lopez resort.

Lesson learned… yes it was a clear day… yes I could see shore.... yes I could have followed the small charter boat if I had to. If i had to I would have made it back by going slow. I guess it was less of a big deal than it was. So don’t rely on the electronic as a must have or die. Captain cook didn’t have any.

The rest of the trip I kept loosing the GPS signal for some reason but I just keep rebooting. Panic gone. Then cell phone rang and tom said that bill, el and patty were at Blakely so off I motored.

No wind so docking was a piece of cake. And Gigi and family were still there. I talked their ears off until they were ready to sit down to dinner. Now cooking dinner by myself, in my boat, with my dog with the food I brought. This was equal to the first night that I moved out of my parents house and was in my own apartment. You know I Love ya dearly Tom, but I still wasn’t missing you as I was having too much fun. Played frisbee with the dog on the lawn. And fell asleep in my lawn chair in the back of the boat.

Next day more socializing with Carl and his wife. Paid for more moorage for the next night. Waved to Gigi and crew as they went for a cruze. shower, dog walk, Then motored out my self, got gas and went for a drive. (here I am talking to the girls about girl power and boating and I can’t remember carl’s wife name. I have no social skills at all. Sorry !!!!!)

Second mistake. I heard that the whales were off of jones island so I headed west out of blakely. Or what I though was west. When the GPS said I was off of the west shore of Decatur I realized my mistake. I was zoomed in too far and missed my turn north. I had gone south. Lesson learned I need a big paper map open to see the big picture and the GPS to zoom in for reefs, shoals ect.

So I abandoned the whales to pick up tom at Washington park. I decided to head south and drop anchor by James island until 5 pm when I motored to pick up tom. Again no wind so docking was easy. I had pulled up behind some one at the boat ramp with their boat cockeyed. They had pulled out and their boat came off their trailer and hit the ramp destroying their out board. So at least I had not broken the boat and theses big burly guys had. Guys make mistakes too.


So the rest of the trip tom was on board and had a fabulous time. Saved a deer we found swimming mid channel and was trying to get in the boat. Tom threw rope around its belly and we slowly towed it to shore. It was too cold to walk on its own so tom has to pick it up and carry it to shore. We motored away and watched,… it didn’t look good, foaming at the nose and still couldn’t stand. We beached again and tom carried the deer to way above the tide line, in the sun to get warm and set it in a position that gravity would help it get in its legs. And left…. we assume that it made it as we went back two days latter and no dead deer on the beach. I don’t believe there are bears or coyotes but who knows. We were certain that it was going to drown as It was freaking out when we motored to it out in the channel. And it was trying to get into the boat. I am sure some will say what we did was wrong but oh well.

We ran into the whales and turned the motor off for about an hour. We saw the mother and baby whales go by and saw the males breach 6 times. Fireworks were at semiahmoo. Just like pat described surrounded by personal firework displays on the beaches. And then accompanied his parents to Matia for another evening.

Third lesson learned. If Tom can’t go to the islands because of work. I still CAN so see you girls out there!!!!!! And I want a c-dory merit badge like in girl scouts.

Ps sorry for the long post. I just never had anything to write before. and i down loaded pics of whales on our c dory album


http://www.c-brats.com/modules.php?set_ ... _album.php
 
Wow! That's some story, Susan.

And speaking of girls at the helm, Julia, Kiera, Arwen, and I went sailing on the Fourth, courtesy of Dan and Jo. Yes, I mean "sailing". It was a lot of fun; I haven't been out on a sailboat for a few years, and I hadn't realized how much I miss it. Here's a picture of Kiera learning to steer a sailboat; she did great!

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And Julia polishing up her skills, too:

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Pat Anderson":kmn47i6x said:
Patty here. I wish I could think of some uberclever responses to some of the male posts in response to mine ("girls drive boats?", "on purpose?"). I am reading these responses with a huge grin on my face. It's sad how conditioned we (girls) are so we view something like singlehandling a boat as a triumph.

You guys - er, girls - have got to know I am joshing and certainly realize that my comments are more in praise than surprise. And you're right; it is somewhat sad how the conditioning goes. I made pork fried rice tonight and Jamie loved it, so driving a boat ain't no big deal. I predict that before this summer is over I will be digging up this thread and posting a tale of Tiffany, who has an Oregon Safe Boater card, piloting a certain CD25 across the most treacherous river bar in the world. Of course she won't be singlehanding. That's not legal down here for 13 year old girls or boys.
 
Susan, Thanks for the wonderful post. What a great adventure you had, and I am sure that there will be many more to come.

Wow, crossing the bar. I will be waiting for that post! I just knew that Jamie and Tiffany could teach us all a thing or two about handling a boat. Go girls!!!

Mike, You making pork fried rice and Tiffany crossing the Columbia River Bar, hum. You must be a heck of a cook :lol: (joshing)
Robbi
 
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