dotnmarty":2x0jtjbu said:Fairbro":2x0jtjbu said:. I suppose some of you will know the secret to comfortable coexistence but in the morning my boat always looked like burglars had ransacked it during the night. Don’t step on Fido in the dark and you kids quit that fighting! I think you’re going to need a bigger boat, lol. Now I’ll sit back and prepare to be convinced otherwise. More power to ya if you get it done.
Well, my secret was marrying a woman who spent the first 18 years of her life living aboard a boat with two parents, two brothers and a dog. When we bought our first boat she only had two demands, the only wood could be a flag staff, and the cleats had to be beefy. We've been married over 60 years and still miss our 16 footers.
Congratulations Marty. What you did, do and say makes good sense :smiled
As to 2+2+1 on a boat, there are others here who do that , and get along. My advice would be to try short trips first. Find places for everything on the boat and then keep them there. Back in early sailing days I had a Montgomery 15, and we (2) would spend weekends, and occasionally a week at a time on it. Daytimes, the birth was stuffed with food box, cooler, and clothes bags, at night that all went into the cockpit and we got in there to sleep. When we moved onto a 22 footer, it was like moving from a V dub bug into a grayhound bus.
Learn as you go, do what works.
Harvey
SleepyC :moon
