CatyMae is no longer with us…

Steve and family,

I am so shocked and saddened over the news about Caty. Only knowing her from posts here, she seemed like one of those " bigger than life" people. Her quick, strong, and witty posts, love of ppl and fishing, and more... just does not seem possible that she is gone.

My heart goes out to you,

John
 
steve and family,
with warmest regards, i wish you and your family, comfort and peace.
a friend wrote of a friends passing that his friend would live if her memory was kept alive. he said, sometimes it seems that she just stepped out for a second, turned off her cell phone, went on vacation, or is just busy. sometimes you almost feel her presence somewhere near, when the sun all of the sudden comes out of the clouds, or a warm rain starts pouring in the middle of the winter. it's as if she's letting us know she is all right, asking us not to worry.

i think i'll hug my firstmate today.
pat
 
The loss of Caty Mae just makes me remember all the good laughs we shared, and will share with her even though maybe not in body, her spirit will lives on with us until we can make that final cruise to be with her. We here are the ones hurting. She has the Great Peace.
 
Life is not fair - so we need to make the most of the time we have.

It sounds like Caty certainly knew how to do that!

Our condolences.

Steve and Karen
 
Susan and i are sad to hear this news. I could not imagine losing susan. We are the two halves of one being. It seems that steve and Caty were much the same kind of people. We only meet a few times but enjoyed it very much.
 
What a sad terrible loss especially for Steve and family. Only hope I can have a fraction of her attitude and courage if ever its my turn.

Jo-Lee and I both thought our hearts were permanently broken with the loss of our eldest son. The only thing I can imagine comparable or worse would be the loss of Jo-Lee, but the old saying "only time can heal a broken heart" is true for us. Time did heal them, the terrible pain went away and the wonderful memories remain. Steve and Family we can only hope for the same with you.

Jay
 
In time the sadness of Caty Mae's loss will pass but the memories of the good times will live forever.

Best wishes to you in your time of sorrow.

Bill Uffelman
Las Vegas NV
 
Wow, I am speechless... :shock: I never got a chance to officially meet Caty or Steve but always wanted to buddy boat out for some halibut/tuna action. It never worked out. :sad Steve... :hug Hang in there. :rose
 
Steve I am so sorry to hear this, I truly enjoyed the conversations we had at Newport, it only takes a few minutes with Caty to realize how special she was. She will live on in my memory with a smile.

stevej
 
Steve,

Caryn and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Caty's posts were a joy to read and an inspiration to us aspiring fishermen. She had such a passion for fishing which I really envied. Please take care and know that you and your family are in our prayers.

Peter & Caryn
C-Dancer
 
Steve,
We are incredibily sorry to hear that Caty Mae lost her battle. We know she is at peace. May the cherished memories comfort you during this difficult time.
Our thoughs are with you.
Ron & Anne
 
Steve,

I'm not able to post here as much as I'd like to but I still consider all the "brats" as family and count them amongst my friends...met or not. You two are certainly amongst that wonderful group!

There are no adequate words at a time such as this, only memories and hope; memories of the one departed and hope and prayers for the ones left behind. May your heart find peace and your memories be ever sustaining.

Les
 
A couple of years ago, B~C organized a mid-winter Gathering on land at Jantzen Beach in North Portland. About 20 people showed up just to shoot the breeze and visit. I ended up sitting next to Caty, and got to talk about the new (replacement) boat that had just been delivered a few weeks earlier. She was very upbeat about the whole situation, and happy to work with C-D to get all the issues resolved. We also attended a gathering at Cathlamet, but otherwise didn't get to know Caty and Steve very well.

But, the posts kept coming, so we felt we knew her better than those few short visits would suggest.

My wife had rotator cuff surgery last year, so we were about to offer some advice -- then we got the next news -- it wasn't the rotator cuff at all. This news was not so encouraging, but I thought it would be the beginning of a struggle, with an optimistic outcome.

We were gone over the weekend, and returned to find John's message. No?! Not so soon! We all needed more time than this! And as I read the recent messages, there were (of course) several from Caty, just as always.

Steve, we're so sorry for your loss. We've both lost parents, but this is a whole new level. It certainly is gratifying to read the outpouring of care from all the other Brats -- you know, of course, that you have all the support that is possible to give: Beyond that, words just aren't enough.

Take care,
Ed and Janet Gallaher
 
Thanks to Mike and Bill (or whom ever) switched the home page center photos to the CatyMae pictures for a while. What a thoughtful tribute and a way to share. You guys are the greatest :thup :thup .

Harvey
SleepyC :moon
 
Steve, Here's a poem I first heard as a child.
Peace be with you and yours.

From the God's Trombones Selection of poems;

"Weep not, weep not,
She is not dead;
She's resting in the bosom of Jesus.
Heart-broken husband--weep no more;
Grief-stricken son--weep no more;
Left-lonesome daughter--weep no more;
She's only just gone home.

Day before yesterday morning,
God was looking down from his great, high heaven,
Looking down on all his children,
And his eye fell on Sister KatyMae,
Tossing on her bed of pain.
And God's big heart was touched with pity,
With the everlasting pity.

And God sat back on his throne,
And he commanded that tall, bright angel standing at his right hand:
Call me Death!
And that tall, bright angel cried in a voice
That broke like a clap of thunder:
Call Death!--Call Death!
And the echo sounded down the streets of heaven
Till it reached away back to that shadowy place,
Where Death waits with his pale, white horses.

And Death heard the summons,
And he leaped on his fastest horse,
Pale as a sheet in the moonlight.
Up the golden street Death galloped,
And the hoofs of his horse struck fire from the gold,
But they didn't make no sound.
Up Death rode to the Great White Throne,
And waited for God's command.

And God said: Go down, Death, go down,
Go down to Jefferson, Oregon,
Down in the Northwest,
And find Sister KatyMae.
She's borne the burden and heat of the day,
She's labored long in my vineyard,
And she's tired--
She's weary ---
Go down, Death, and bring her to me.

And Death didn't say a word,
But he loosed the reins on his pale, white horse,
And he clamped the spurs to his bloodless sides,
And out and down he rode,
Through heaven's pearly gates,
Past suns and moons and stars;
On Death rode,
And the foam from his horse was like a comet in the sky;
On Death rode,
Leaving the lightning's flash behind;
Straight on down he came.

While we were watching round her bed,
She turned her eyes and looked away,
She saw what we couldn't see:
She saw Old Death. She saw Old Death
Coming like a falling star.
But Death didn't frighten Sister KatyMae;
He looked to her like a welcome friend.
And she whispered to us: I'm going home,
And she smiled and closed her eyes.

And Death took her up like a baby,
And she lay in his icy arms,
But she didn't feel no chill.
And Death began to ride again--
Up beyond the evening star,
Out beyond the morning star,
Into the glittering light of glory,
On to the Great white Throne.

And there he laid Sister KatyMae
On the loving breast of Jesus....
Weep not--weep not,
She is not dead;
She's resting in the bosom of Jesus."

By James Weldon Johnson
 
I'm at a loss for words. I've not been online much the last few days as I finally took time off work to get some work done on the C-Dory for a change.

While I never met Caty, I exchanged several PM's emails and a couple phone calls with her when she was having problems with her truck. She was always very upbeat and full of life. She will be greatly missed!

Steve, and family you have my condolences :rose
 
Steve,
There isn't anything anyone has written that we have not felt about your special Caty, and we have been so touched by her passing that the words just wouldn't come. But one important thing we would like to share is the reminder of Caty's last post on the C-Brat site. We feel Caty's VERY LAST post is the GIFT she made to all of us before she left. I quote,

"Ahem ----- life's too short guys".

We knew Caty only casually, but from the few times we spoke, her wonderful warm smile, and her spunky upbeat posts on this site, we feel confident that Caty lived by those words that she shared with us on August 1, 2008. Just a few short days before she left this earth. We saw her as one of those very unique people who throughly appreciated and enjoyed her life by seeking the positive and not sweating the small stuff.

It was obvious to us that you and Caty had a really special bond and truly enjoyed each other's company. That quality of relationship is another gift and reminder to us ---- someone earlier on this thread shared that they were going to go and hug their first mate. That is the kind of influence that keeps Caty's spirit alive and ongoing.

Steve, we hope your deep grief will be balanced with the comfort and appreciation of the wonderful memories you have. Our most sincere condolences to you and all of your family.
Bob & Betsy Burks

"AHEM ----- LIFE'S TOO SHORT GUYS" Caty Mae August 1, 2008
 
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