Agree with Joe,
everything depends on your boating area.
For newbies:
In general, all standard outboards are designed to minimize damage when you hit things going forward (the rock or log hits the forward edge of your lower unit, not the prop, and the hydraulic rams allow it to kick up and over the obstruction, possibly without ever hitting the spinning prop).
When backing toward a beach in reverse, the hydraulic rams are not in play, your prop makes first contact with the log/rock, and the entire shock is absorbed up your propshaft and driveshaft/engine (hoping the hub fails first).
In soft sand and very low speeds, usually you just rub paint off the prop. If you're not backing in to soft sand, consider any other alternative as above.
Newbie suggestion #2, with or without a windlass consider tying off Marinco colored cable ties (they go right through a windlass well) so you can tell how much chain or rode is out at a glance.
We added (via paying the pros) a wireless remote (fob) to our pretty much standard Lewmar 700 windlass so Eileen can control the up/down action from the bow while I maneuver. It's really hard for me to do both. On the other hand, I can't boat and chew gum at the same time, so your mileage may differ. At least gas is cheap.
Cheers!
John