Pat and Patty,
Wow, have missed being here for a few days and come on to find this thread already 3 pages long. You are loved here, and the whole family cares. Sounds like you have been through the mill and coming out the other side already. We will keep you in our prayers for a full and speedy recovery. Deena has had some experience with a retinal disintegration thing, and it is really scarry, but it does heal and it is still spooky. Bummer for her, she couldn't ride the lawn mower for a couple months, (oh yea, that was a bummer for me too). You both take care and be careful. This probably means no more kickboxing and football though, so calm down relax and spend a bit more time at that 6 knots.
Harvey
SleepyC