One thought I have for the people who are having winch line feeding problems is that the infomative page at the Lewmar site (linked by someone else a few messages back in this thread) talks about variability in some manufacturers' line sizes. If the 1/2" line is a little smaller than Lewmar's it can cause feeding problems.
I'm not sure where my 1/2" line came from, but it feeds very reliably, and the splice that I made by following pictorial instructions feeds reliably, too.
It's possible that comparing your rode diameter carefully with some other lines may lead you to a rode that feeds better.
I'd love to try some of the 8 plait line to maybe make room for even more rode in my locker, but my setup's working well now, so it's hard to justify spending a bunch of money on that.
Regarding the 'tossing', I think Bob meant that the top of the pile of chain will slide over to the side and drop below some of the chain that was piled under it, and then some of that remainder can slide over and end up above the chain that was previously on top. That might lead to a feeding problem later, but not necessarily. The chain feeds out fairly slowly (not with a free-fall system, I guess) and it's pretty good about sliding past itself on the way. I'll bet he didn't mean to portray the entire pile of chain jumping up in the air and then landing completely inverted, as some might interpret from the wording.