You're in a very unique zone. I'd prefer to trust the NOAA buoy, pressure and satellite data. I want to be in the water, but I don't want to get pounded either.
I make my decisions on boating between Hatteras and Cape Lookout based upon this site only (and because the NOAA station is less than one mile from our house). Use your own judgement. Inside the sound tucked into Oriental you'll fair better than outside of the Neuse on the coast.
Keep your eye on it. If it turns any further N than W, it will get much worse.
http://www.nws.noaa.gov/om/marine/zone/east/mhxmz.htm
Here's the latest GOES of the Neuse River - note the demarcation between the innner bands and the outer bands. Just use good judgement is all I'm offering.
Here's the H20 vapor loop. The Neuse is dead between the two H20 vapor zones of the cyclone.
http://www.ssd.noaa.gov/goes/flt/t2/loop-vis.html
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SYNOPSIS FOR EASTERN NORTH CAROLINA COASTAL WATERS...
A STRONG COASTAL LOW OFF THE SOUTHERN COAST WILL CONTINUE PRODUCE
STRONG NE WINDS AND VERY HAZARDOUS MARINE CONDITIONS THROUGH
TONIGHT. THE LOW WILL GRADUALLY MOVE W-NW TODAY...THEN INLAND
TONIGHT AND FRI. ANOTHER AREA OF LOW PRES WILL PASS WELL E OF THE
REGION OVER THE WEEKEND.
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GALE WARNING IN EFFECT UNTIL 2 AM EDT FRIDAY
TONIGHT
SE WINDS 25 TO 30 KT WITH GUSTS UP TO 40 KT...BECOMING S
20 TO 25 KT LATE.
SEAS 8 TO 11 FT DOMINANT PERIOD 9 SECONDS. A
SLIGHT CHANCE OF TSTMS. SHOWERS UNTIL EARLY MORNING...THEN SHOWERS
LIKELY LATE.
FRI
S WINDS 15 TO 20 KT...DIMINISHING TO 10 TO 15 KT IN THE
AFTERNOON.
SEAS 7 TO 10 FT DOMINANT PERIOD 8 SECONDS. A CHANCE OF
SHOWERS WITH A SLIGHT CHANCE OF TSTMS.
FRI NIGHT
S WINDS 5 TO 10 KT...DIMINISHING TO AROUND 5 KT AFTER
MIDNIGHT.
SEAS 6 TO 9 FT. A CHANCE OF SHOWERS.
SAT
SW WINDS 5 TO 10 KT...INCREASING TO 10 TO 15 KT IN THE
AFTERNOON. SEAS 5 TO 8 FT. A SLIGHT CHANCE OF SHOWERS.
SAT NIGHT
SW WINDS 10 TO 15 KT. SEAS 5 TO 7 FT. A SLIGHT CHANCE
OF SHOWERS IN THE EVENING.
SUN
SW WINDS 10 TO 15 KT. SEAS 4 TO 6 FT.
SUN NIGHT
SW WINDS 10 TO 15 KT. SEAS 3 TO 5 FT.
MON
NW WINDS 10 TO 15 KT...BECOMING E. SEAS 2 TO 4 FT.
TUE
E WINDS 10 TO 15 KT. SEAS 2 TO 3 FT.
WINDS AND SEAS HIGHER IN AND NEAR TSTMS.